Why are my Relections, Lighting and Shadows acting weird?

I have been trying to fix this bug for a month now and i can’t find a solution i have tried watching youtube videos, changing versions and changing some settings in the project tab

that looks like “normal” shadow draw distance. are that vsm shadows? they have a couple of ranges/clipmaps afaik. i don’t use them, tho. so… i’ll not dive in too much.