||this is for someone in the future that will have the same problem. Hopefully this will help them||
well, i got it to work by just downloading uefn on her computer and load up the project and while we’re in the same lobby i hit start session. (while we are both on our consoles i hit start session, also, make sure to set it to load on a different platform and not on the computer, i can’t remember what that is called. its a drop down menu)