We all are!(thats why this part of the forum exst 
) And dont think about that you coud look like neglecting work as no one is thinking such a thing.The reason to have such thoughts is simple>
24 hours in a day from which we need a few to live,a few to work and the rest is sleep.A person just cant have more arms and heads to do more with the given time.I am the one who posts the least about personal project due to the same reasons and tend to keep the bang quietly until the end, so for me, you are doing ok.
One thing just bugs me a litle since some time.Dont you think that skirt looks maybe a litle too modern for the character? I try to eat my daily dose of internet jrpg waifus :o , and i think,when you have the time that you shoud revisit the design.No need to remodel it and lose all those painted weights,but you coud get away with some alpha polygone strips that will extend the skirt and give it that fantasy look.