Looking for Female Unreal VR Developers in the SF Bay area

The fact that you’re targeting a male-only audience is both a symptom, AND a part of the problem.

My rule of thumb:
If the women wear nice clothes similar to the guys (putting on their best jeans, that fancy western shirt, favorite utilikilt, or whatever,) then the women are likely there for the right reasons.
If the guys wear business suits, but the women wear bikinis, probably not.