Ugh,
I just dealt with a reticent user moments ago. My frustration isn’t meant to be directed at you.
I KNOW this all seems obvious to you, but it doesn’t to me, and most likely others. You can record the video in WIREFRAME or UNLIT view if it makes you feel better, but unless I can hear it and see what’s going on, I, personally, can’t help you; it would take too long to extract all the information out of you that I’d need.
It’s like describing color to someone color-blind, or 4 physical dimensions to a 3 dimensional being.
If you decide not to post the video, I hope someone else can help you.