How to use multi-user with Nord VPN meshnet/ Where to find correct IP for static endpoint and unicast endpoint as well as what port numbers for each

If anyone has used Nord VPN to use the multi-user editing feature on UE5 and can post some screeenshots or say exactly where to find the IP each of us needs to put in our respective static endpoints and unicast endpoints, that would be amazing. Also, once that’s done, does one of us just create a server and it should show up if correct? We both have the same project files and project names already and no combination of our meshnet IPs or ipconfig IPs in the command prompt will work. We’re both using port 0 for unicast and port 6666 for the static endpoint.

If anyone can help with this, then you would be our saviors. This one problem has prevented us from working for 3 days and the thought of solving it and being done with it so that we can actually work has been all I can think about the whole time.

Thank you