I want to create a engram that all player get when they spawn in so like the pickaxe and torch
You should look at the EngramEntry_StonePick blueprint, it will give you an idea on how to do that.
you can also add engrams with a level of 0 and require 0 engram points… It wouldn’t be automatic but you could grab them for free once spawned. I do this all the time for quick testing of my mods.