Your grass has 14.000 tris (when you use the one on the picture above ^^) -> that’s too much. Normal gras just consits out of some planes (e.g 6 tris)
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But to get a better performance you will have to use good lods + culling
The 2nd problem is a mip problem: On answerhub you can find many stuff about it 