Dynamic Rope/Cable Plugin

Hello, just what i need. I bought the plugin and have installed it.
Now, i have another question. After i have spawned my rope, attached it to the socket in the hand of my character and enabled collisions the rope “tugs” on the player character really bad when moving around.
I have one point attached in the air and the other in the characters hand and have made the rope 800 units long. How can i make the rope not behave like this? Tried changing the mass and dampening on the rope. I want the rope to have collision (i.e lay on the ground) but also have the character be able to “drag” it behind him.