chaos cloth component in character blueprint not working like in cloth asset preview

Hello, im trying to put a cloth mesh inside a character blueprint


In the cloth asset the cloth wraps around the legs, and its working like i intended

but when i put the asset in the character blueprint, that doesnt work:

here it only follows the skeletal skin weights and seem to ignore the addWeightmap:


and the set physics asset:

And yes its the same cloth that i am using in the blueprint and the simulation is set true

Any idea how to fix this?