[Bug] 4.21 project wont package with Apex destruction plugin enabled

Pretty sure this is a bug, whenever I create a new project from the first person template in 4.21 the project wont package, I have a project im working on and I spent days trying to find the cause of the packaging error, it looks like this is the cause. I made a new clean project from a template to test it to be sure (packaged it without the plugin first and it works fine, both 64 and 32bit are broken) the strange thing is that destructible meshes work fine within the editor as far as I can tell.

I dont know anything about C++ and are working on everything with blueprints but if theres somthing obvious that I am missing, like the engine needs some nividia third party libraries or somthing installed on my pc (im running an amd gpu if thats relevant?), please let me know, I really want to get this working for my game. Thank you

Are you adding the ApexDestruction plugin to your project before you try to package it?

Im not entirely sure what you mean, in that I dont think its possible to add plugins after packaging it? I thought the only way to add plugins was to do so in the editor and then package it? (which is what I have done) I have just tested oculusAudio plugin as well in the same way (which was another plugin that was using) and I have the same problem! I also tested another plugin at random (google vr) because at this point it cant be a coincidence something must be very wrong here. I also verified my instillation in case the files are corrupt and it appears to be fine (I also retested packaging a new template with oculusAudio plugin after verifying and its still not working)

After doing some digging it appears that this is the issue I’ve been having Unreal Engine Issues and Bug Tracker (UE-59965), im still pretty new to unreal but this seems like quite an alarmingly important issue to have for a new build of the engine, why it was ever released with this doesnt seem right, surely only some systems are effected? this cant be a problem for everyone as I haven’t found any other post complaining about it?