I’ve looked through some chaos destruction tutorials on youtube but they were all kinda the same and had the same problems, e.g. i could make a mesh destructible, but for it to get destroyed I have to hit it with a wrecking ball sized object and it violently explodes on impact.
But I want to do this: https://youtu.be/fzlcv1GhjMM (actually bullet sized bullets, and more controlled destruction)
Is there a tutorial somewhere that teaches me what I need to be able to do that?