“And I see that everyone says it is easy or suggests, the sort requires blah but nobody knows exactly how to do” Once you are able to handle others suggestions and solutions, you will be happy that people know what they are talking about.
And to be able to understand what people say and to be able to extrapolate information of other tutorials, I highly recommend you to watch as many videos from the following playlist as possible. Short and compact basic knowledge. If you think you do not need them, you will run straight into issues by not knowing things. People just lead you the way, and the playlist shows you how to walk 