Not entirely related to the topic of the thread, however, I saw mentioned about, if your harassed, go to HR and they will sort it out. Well, my own personal story:
I worked for a large sales corporation. A female employee of said corporation hated working in the department she was working in, and wanted to go to another department, where she would get paid a bit more, and not deal with the headaches of irate customers (ie: job promotion). The head boss of the store denied her request three different times, as they needed her in the dept. she was at (lack of employees).
At the time, we were, at the best, cordial, meaning that we would say hi to each other, and then continue on our workday. We worked in different departments, but they were right next to each other.
At one point, after she realized she couldn’t go to the other department, she contacted HR, and filed a complaint on me, telling them that I was harassing her, asking her out (she wasn’t even attractive to me, though I didn’t tell her that), and overall just being a, well, yea. So the GM calls me in, telling me that I had to sign paperwork and blah blah. Well, the right to face (or at least know) who your accuser is, right? Because no one has ever came up to me in all the years I have been working and asked me to stop doing something relating to this type of situation. This is the first thing that is mandatory, in all of the times that I have been going through HR related training. (tell them to stop, if they don’t, talk to the boss, if it continues, contact HR).
Anyways, I didn’t sign the paper work as I didn’t do anything wrong, and she got her promotion to the different department. So yea, being your typical white male in the workplace has it’s downside. You can become the stepping stone of people willing to do “what it takes”, and of course, being male, you’re guilty until proven innocent, and good luck with proving that since it’s heresy.
Now, back on topic… personally I’m not fond of discrimination at all. You should be hired on and get paid by what your worth… *** (gender), race, religion, hell, even species, none of that matters to me. If someone is better qualified at something than I am, then they should get it. It mean that I didn’t work hard enough for it.