Hi No_Nam4. You can find “the 11 second club” many advanced tips for character animation. About books i think this very good “The Animator’s Survival Kit”. What about best programm for animation i think all programms on this moment like Maya, Blender, XSI and many others, very strong and powerfull. You can read here about Maya or 3D Max.
- If you had to choose...[3DS or Maya?] - Community & Industry Discussion - Epic Developer Community Forums
- Maya Or 3dsMax? - Community & Industry Discussion - Epic Developer Community Forums
- Maya? 3dsmax? What do you use to rig and animate. - Character & Animation - Epic Developer Community Forums
And then try select the best for you. Hope its helpfull.