So what you’re saying is is I’ve been wasting my time using Blender, and I should really be using Max or Maya - cos yeah they are just better…
Are you aware that there are 3D Professionals working all over the world using Blender - And yes even 2.79 - so its not like its just become a thing since 2.8. Even some of the guys at Epic are using Blender- and I know plenty of 3D Artists at game companies who use Blender. So yeah all these guys were just wasting their time.
Some people like Blenders UI and find it faster, more intuitive and easier to use than Max / Maya. - I happen to be one of these people.
Your opinion that Blender’s UI is messy and a waste time is just wrong - in my opinion! 
Please don’t confuse opinion with facts. 
Not everyone has the same workflow as you.