Vehicles in UE4 , a constructive debate

Hehe… It seems that 99.99% of people are statisfied with the arcade cars in UE4. I could be, but I’m not happy with NFS type(or even more arcady) physics. I need simulation level. But it seems that all ends are pointing in one direction - make it myself.
I don’t know how to code C++, but doing it in blueprints would make huge mess aswell as decrease performance. Hm… I even don’t know what to do…